{"id":7944,"date":"2021-01-24T16:01:51","date_gmt":"2021-01-24T15:01:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.otto-keller.de\/naehe-auf-distanz\/"},"modified":"2021-11-12T07:55:13","modified_gmt":"2021-11-12T06:55:13","slug":"proximite-a-distance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.otto-keller.de\/fr\/proximite-a-distance\/","title":{"rendered":"Proximit\u00e9 \u00e0 distance"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=\u00a0\u00bb1&Prime; module_class=\u00a0\u00bbheader interview\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.7.3&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb custom_padding=\u00a0\u00bb0px|||||\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_row column_structure=\u00a0\u00bb1_3,1_3,1_3&Prime; module_class=\u00a0\u00bbganz headline\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.7.3&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb width=\u00a0\u00bb100%\u00a0\u00bb max_width=\u00a0\u00bb1340px\u00a0\u00bb module_alignment=\u00a0\u00bbcenter\u00a0\u00bb custom_margin=\u00a0\u00bb|auto||610px||\u00a0\u00bb custom_padding=\u00a0\u00bb0px||0px|||\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_column type=\u00a0\u00bb1_3&Prime; 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_builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.7.3&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_image src=\u00a0\u00bbhttps:\/\/www.otto-keller.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/web_01-1.jpg\u00a0\u00bb title_text=\u00a0\u00bbweb_01&Prime; align=\u00a0\u00bbright\u00a0\u00bb force_fullwidth=\u00a0\u00bbon\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.7.3&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=\u00a0\u00bb1_3&Prime; _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.7.3&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_image src=\u00a0\u00bbhttps:\/\/www.otto-keller.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/web_02-1.jpg\u00a0\u00bb title_text=\u00a0\u00bbweb_02&Prime; _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.7.3&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=\u00a0\u00bb1&Prime; module_class=\u00a0\u00bbinterview body text \u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.7.3&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb custom_margin=\u00a0\u00bb0px||||false|false\u00a0\u00bb custom_padding=\u00a0\u00bb0px|||||\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_row module_class=\u00a0\u00bbbody text textline breit\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.7.3&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_column type=\u00a0\u00bb4_4&Prime; _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.7.3&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_text _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> Sophie avait sept ans lorsque ses parents se sont s\u00e9par\u00e9s. Son p\u00e8re Bernd a d\u00e9m\u00e9nag\u00e9, d&rsquo;abord de la maison commune et enfin en Bavi\u00e8re. Depuis, la fille et le p\u00e8re sont s\u00e9par\u00e9s d&rsquo;environ 400 kilom\u00e8tres. Pendant des ann\u00e9es, ils ont eu une relation p\u00e8re-fille \u00e0 distance. <\/p>\n<p> Cette ann\u00e9e, Bernd a d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de vouloir \u00e0 nouveau se rapprocher de Sophie. Que pouvez-vous apprendre d&rsquo;eux sur la proximit\u00e9 et la distance entre parents et enfants? <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row module_class=\u00a0\u00bbbody text textline smalltext\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.7.3&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb min_height=\u00a0\u00bb534px\u00a0\u00bb custom_margin=\u00a0\u00bb|auto||997px||\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_column type=\u00a0\u00bb4_4&Prime; _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.7.3&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbantwort\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <span> Notre auteur les a interrog\u00e9s s\u00e9par\u00e9ment. <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbfrage\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> Comment avez-vous v\u00e9cu le moment de votre s\u00e9paration \u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e9poque? <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbantwort\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <strong> Sophie <\/strong> <span> Bien s\u00fbr ce n&rsquo;\u00e9tait pas facile, mais je savais que mon p\u00e8re d\u00e9m\u00e9nageait en Bavi\u00e8re non pas \u00e0 cause de moi, mais principalement pour des raisons professionnelles. N\u00e9anmoins, il m&rsquo;a fallu beaucoup de temps pour arr\u00eater d&rsquo;avoir le mal du pays &#8211; ou plut\u00f4t l&rsquo;envie de voyager &#8211; pour lui. <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbantwort\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <strong> BERND <\/strong> <span> Quand j&rsquo;ai d\u00e9m\u00e9nag\u00e9 en Bavi\u00e8re, j&rsquo;\u00e9tais d&rsquo;abord tr\u00e8s occup\u00e9 par le d\u00e9m\u00e9nagement, la nouvelle situation et moi-m\u00eame. Nouvel \u00c9tat f\u00e9d\u00e9ral, nouvelle chance, nouveau travail &#8211; vous n&rsquo;y pensez pas beaucoup. Apr\u00e8s un certain temps, cependant, j&rsquo;ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 tr\u00e8s clairement \u00e0 quel point mon enfant me manque. \u00c0 ce moment-l\u00e0, j&rsquo;ai vraiment eu mal au c\u0153ur. <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbfrage\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <span> Aviez-vous peur que votre relation change en raison de la distance spatiale\u00a0? <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbantwort\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <strong> Sophie <\/strong> <span> Pas vraiment. N\u00e9anmoins, au d\u00e9but, il \u00e9tait tr\u00e8s important pour moi de parler tous les jours au t\u00e9l\u00e9phone avec mon p\u00e8re. Cela n&rsquo;a pas toujours fonctionn\u00e9. Il a fallu du temps pour qu&rsquo;une certaine normalit\u00e9 s&rsquo;installe. La plupart du temps, nous parlions deux ou trois fois par semaine. Mais il y avait aussi des semaines o\u00f9 nous ne parlions pas du tout parce que \u00e7a n&rsquo;allait tout simplement pas &#8211; et \u00e7a me convenait. <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbantwort\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <strong> bernd <\/strong> <span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"> J&rsquo;y ai d\u00e9j\u00e0 pens\u00e9, mais \u00e0 l&rsquo;int\u00e9rieur je savais juste que notre relation \u00e9tait trop \u00e9troite pour \u00e7a. <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbfrage\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> Que signifie la distance pour vous? <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbantwort\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <strong> Sophie <\/strong> <span> Organisation. Il faut tout pr\u00e9voir. C&rsquo;est plus facile avec les gens qui habitent \u00e0 proximit\u00e9. Maintenant, j&rsquo;ai un permis de conduire, mais \u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e9poque, ma m\u00e8re devait toujours m&#8217;emmener l\u00e0-bas et venir me chercher. \u00c0 l&rsquo;\u00e9poque, mes parents se rencontraient toujours au milieu car le voyage de retour aurait \u00e9t\u00e9 trop long pour une seule personne. J&rsquo;\u00e9tais donc presque toujours livr\u00e9. <Span class=\"Apple-converted-space\"> <\/span> <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbantwort\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <strong> bernd <\/strong> <span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"> Ne pas \u00eatre tangible d&rsquo;une minute \u00e0 l&rsquo;autre. Mais le temps \u00e9tait toujours tr\u00e8s agr\u00e9able quand Sophie \u00e9tait l\u00e0. La plupart du temps, elle \u00e9tait avec moi pendant les vacances et est ensuite rest\u00e9e plusieurs jours ou semaines. J&rsquo;\u00e9tais excit\u00e9 comme un petit gar\u00e7on trois jours plus t\u00f4t. Le retour vers sa m\u00e8re \u00e9tait d&rsquo;autant plus \u00e9mouvant. Apr\u00e8s la remise, j&rsquo;avais souvent les larmes aux yeux. Ce furent des moments tr\u00e8s tristes. <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbfrage\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <span> A quels moments avez-vous ressenti de la proximit\u00e9 malgr\u00e9 la distance? <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbantwort\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <strong> Sophie <\/strong> <span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"> Quand mon p\u00e8re et moi parlons au t\u00e9l\u00e9phone, nous parlons des choses de tous les jours. J&rsquo;ai toujours su \u00e0 quoi ressemblait sa vie quotidienne ou s&rsquo;il avait un probl\u00e8me. Et je pouvais m&rsquo;\u00e9nerver \u00e0 propos de n&rsquo;importe quoi au t\u00e9l\u00e9phone et il s&rsquo;\u00e9nervait contre moi. Nous avons \u00e9galement partag\u00e9 des probl\u00e8mes \u00e9motionnels et pas seulement superficiels. Je pense qu&rsquo;il est important de rester en contact r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement et de laisser l&rsquo;autre personne participer \u00e0 votre vie. <\/span> <\/p>\n<p> <span> Je pense aussi qu&rsquo;il est important de faire bon usage du temps que vous passez physiquement ensemble &#8211; et pas seulement sur votre t\u00e9l\u00e9phone portable, par exemple. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\"> <\/span > <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbantwort\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <strong> bernd <\/strong> <span> Chaque fois que nous nous parlions au t\u00e9l\u00e9phone ou \u00e9crivions, je me sentais proche. Sophie savait qu&rsquo;elle pouvait m&rsquo;appeler jour et nuit. Elle \u00e9tait au courant de ma vie et moi de la sienne. Je savais quand elle faisait la f\u00eate, avait des examens scolaires ou avait du stress avec quelqu&rsquo;un. Je pense que la communication est tr\u00e8s importante. Je suis aussi all\u00e9 en Sarre aussi souvent que possible. Principalement le samedi matin \u00e0 6h et retour vers 22h <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbfrage\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <span> La distance a-t-elle \u00e9galement profit\u00e9 \u00e0 votre relation? <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbantwort\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <strong> Sophie <\/strong> <span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"> Je pense que oui. \u00c0 cause de la distance, je ne me disputais jamais avec mon p\u00e8re au sujet des choses de tous les jours. Par exemple, contrairement \u00e0 ma m\u00e8re, mon p\u00e8re n&rsquo;a jamais dit que je devais en apprendre davantage. Nous n&rsquo;\u00e9tions pas constamment confront\u00e9s les uns aux autres. Cela peut aussi \u00eatre un avantage. <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbantwort\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <strong> bernd <\/strong> <span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"> Bien s\u00fbr, il \u00e9tait parfois agr\u00e9able de n&rsquo;en entendre parler par t\u00e9l\u00e9phone que lorsqu&rsquo;il y avait des probl\u00e8mes \u00e0 la maison. N\u00e9anmoins, j&rsquo;aurais aim\u00e9 voir des situations comme celle-ci plus souvent. <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbfrage\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <span> Comment g\u00e9rez-vous actuellement la distance qui vous s\u00e9pare? <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbantwort\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <strong> Sophie <\/strong> <span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"> <\/span> <span> Assez bien. Au cours des derni\u00e8res ann\u00e9es, j&rsquo;ai remarqu\u00e9 de plus en plus clairement \u00e0 quel point il m&rsquo;est difficile de m&rsquo;absenter si longtemps. J&rsquo;ai toujours pens\u00e9 que c&rsquo;\u00e9tait agr\u00e9able d&rsquo;\u00eatre avec mon p\u00e8re, mais bien s\u00fbr, quand j&rsquo;ai vu les histoires Instagram de mes amis, j&rsquo;aurais ador\u00e9 \u00eatre l\u00e0. Au lieu de cela, j&rsquo;\u00e9tais en Bavi\u00e8re. C&rsquo;\u00e9tait parfois stupide. <\/span> <\/p>\n<p> <span> Nous ne conduisons actuellement qu&rsquo;\u00e0 une heure de route et je peux souvent utiliser la voiture de ma m\u00e8re. Je suis content que la situation soit maintenant un peu plus souple et que je ne puisse dormir avec lui que du vendredi au samedi par exemple. Je ne suis plus si isol\u00e9 maintenant. Je peux le voir et quand m\u00eame aller \u00e0 une f\u00eate le samedi soir. <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbantwort\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <strong> bernd <\/strong> <span> Tr\u00e8s bien. La distance actuelle n&rsquo;est plus du tout stressante. Le week-end prochain, par exemple, nous aurons une journ\u00e9e bien-\u00eatre ensemble. J&rsquo;aime revoir ma fille plus souvent. Je peux maintenant dire : si vous en avez envie ce soir, je viendrai vers vous et nous aurons une pizza. Nous pouvons maintenant \u00eatre \u00e0 nouveau beaucoup plus spontan\u00e9s. <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbfrage\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <span> Lequel d&rsquo;entre vous peut mieux g\u00e9rer la distance qui vous s\u00e9pare\u00a0? <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbantwort\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <strong> Sophie <\/strong> <span> D&rsquo;abord lui, puis moi. J&rsquo;avais dix ans quand mon p\u00e8re a d\u00e9m\u00e9nag\u00e9. Plus je vieillissais, plus je planifiais ma propre vie et faisais des projets pour les week-ends. Ce fut le tournant pour moi. <Span class=\"Apple-converted-space\"> <\/span> <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text module_class=\u00a0\u00bbantwort\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.10.7&Prime; _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p> <strong> bernd <\/strong> <span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"> Je pense que nous nous entendons tous les deux aussi bien avec la distance actuelle. Je me souviens encore d&rsquo;une situation il y a trois ans o\u00f9 Sophie devait passer une semaine avec moi pendant les vacances de P\u00e2ques. Elle venait g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement en train le vendredi et revenait le dimanche suivant. \u00c0 un moment donn\u00e9, elle a dit : Toi, papa, je ne viendrai que dimanche parce que je vais \u00e0 une f\u00eate samedi. J&rsquo;ai d\u00fb avaler \u00e0 sec trois fois et j&rsquo;ai juste pens\u00e9 : OK, merde, c&rsquo;est tout. Votre enfant est maintenant un adulte. Sophie est sur le point de commencer ses \u00e9tudes maintenant et sa vie est bien sous contr\u00f4le. 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